How much money do you give for a bar or bat mitzvah?
Gifts are traditionally in multiples of 18 — the numerical value of chai, meaning life. Friends of the family often give $54 or $72, and close relatives $180 or more. Beestow lets you set any amount from $20 up, so the customary figures work exactly as they would in a card.
Can I send a gift in a multiple of 18?
Yes — you type the dollar amount yourself, so $36, $54, $180 and $360 all work. A small flat service fee is shown separately and upfront, so the gift amount the recipient sees is the number you chose.
The recipient is 13. Can they claim it themselves?
Redemption requires identity verification, which means an adult. When the recipient is a minor, a parent or guardian claims the gift for them and redeems the cash value to their own brokerage or bank account. Beestow asks about this when you send, so nobody is left stuck.
Does the recipient own the shares?
No. A Beestow gift is a prepaid gift whose value is linked to the stock's market performance. When it's redeemed, Beestow transfers the cash value to a brokerage or bank account — the recipient receives cash, not securities.
Is this appropriate if I'm not Jewish?
Yes. If you've been invited, a gift in the customary multiples of 18 is both correct and appreciated — this is simply a way to send it that the recipient is more likely to remember.
What if the stock drops before it's redeemed?
The value is based on the live price at the moment of redemption — not when you sent it. The recipient controls the timing, so they can wait. Gifts never expire.